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BOEK, Adriaan Wicher
May 11, 1945 — December 2, 2024
Adriaan Wicher Boek passed away peacefully on December 2, 2024, in Kelowna, BC. Born in Brummen, the Netherlands on May 11, 1945, he was the first baby born in the village after the liberation by the Canadians, and perhaps that is what led him to eventually move his family to Canada in 1988. Adriaan is watching over Gwen, his loving wife of 51 years, his daughter Werna, his beautiful granddaughters Molly and Ava, and his son Arnoud. In the Netherlands he is remembered by his 3 younger brothers Cees (Gerrie), Anno (Maria), Geralt (Hanneke), and their children and grandchildren, as well as Gwen’s sisters and their families, Gies (Stuart), and Corine (Paul).
When Adriaan was 18 years old, his father became sick, so he left school and took over his paper and packaging factory, which he ran successfully until, at the age of 43, he sold the business to follow his dream and move to Canada. Ignoring what people thought of this bold move (and having finally convinced Gwen to pack up and leave their friends and family), he stumbled upon the opportunity to buy a business in one of the most beautiful places in Canada, Kelowna, BC – and he never looked back! He ran Ducky Down Downquilts with his wife Gwen, until he reluctantly sold the business and retired in 2020. Although there were struggles along the way (including: years of commuting between Kelowna and Vancouver to keep the business running and losing their home during the fire in 2003), Adriaan would always remind his family that they had everything they needed and that they were in fact on a permanent vacation. Bertram beach days on Sunday afternoons in the summer, sailing on the lake, skiing with the kids, and cross-country skiing with Gwen (who never was able to get on a chairlift) just to name a few of his favourite things.
Adriaan, although quiet by nature, radiated love and kindness, and his positive energy and calm demeanour is what made people want to be in his presence. When he had something to say it was always considerate, genuine and wise. Adriaan never sat still. He sat on the board of St. Paul’s United Church for many years and helped bring their bell tower to life. He loved working in the yard he called his paradise; creatively fixing things around the house; making his own wine; skiing Big White, which he did until he was 77 years old; playing the stock market, a passion he took years to perfect; and he always had time to dance in the kitchen with Gwen.
Adriaan was diagnosed with vascular dementia nearly 2 years ago, and although we are heartbroken to have him taken from us too soon, we remember the words he always said… “this too will pass”.
You’ve got your wings now, rest in peace, until we meet again.
Please help us support those affected by dementia by donating to Alzheimer Society British Columbia, where all donations received up until December 31/24 will be matched by the Friends of the Society, a group of generous donors.
A Memorial Service will be held on SATURDAY, DECEMBER 7, 2024, at 1:00 PM (PST), at SPRINGFIELD FUNERAL HOME, 2020 Springfield Road, Kelowna, BC. If you are unable to attend in person, please join the family online by Livestream at the time of the service, a recording will be made available to view shortly thereafter.
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Lieve Gwenny, Werna, Arnoud, Molly en Ava,
Wat verdrietig te lezen dat Wicher overleden is. Vroeger noemde ik hem oom Wicher 😊
Ik herinner me de fijne tijden in jullie huis in Brummen en de mooie momenten bij de bruiloft van Werna.
De afgelopen jaren was het fijn om af en toe een mooie foto voorbij te zien komen, waar hij altijd zo lief op keek. Wat zal het gemis groot zijn.
Ik wens jullie veel liefde en kracht toe voor de komende dagen en de tijd die komen gaat.
In gedachten ben ik bij jullie!
Lieve groeten, Mechteld 😘
dear gwen, i am so sorry to hear of wichers passing but i know how double it is . finally the rest that you both needed! wicher can now rest in peace and you can live on with the memories of a long and wonderful marriage. i wish you great strenth n the time to come. much love from you r old uncle dick in amsterdam
Lieve Gwen, Werna en de meisjes en Arnoud, wat verdrietig om te horen dat Wicher ons verlaten heeft. Wat blijft zijn de mooie herinneringen aan de mooie tijden en feesten samen zoals Sinterklaas waarbij Wicher de pakjes uitdeelde en de vele gezellige avonden bij elkaar. Jullie als tante Gwen en oom Wikkie voor onze meiden.
We gaan Wicher vreselijk missen maar dragen de mooie herinneringen altijd bij ons.
Heel veel sterkte met de verwerking van dit enorme verlies van onze lieve Wicher.
Een hele dikke knuffel van Trees, Krista, Danielle en Mady😘
We loved Adriaan. He was the sweetest man. His big smile, sparkling eyes and sense of humour will not be forgotten. Jim remembers with great fondness the many ski days he and Adriaan enjoyed together over the years. We will miss him.
Gwen I am sad to hear of Adriaan’s passing. I enjoyed the time we able to share with you both when we lived in Kelowna..
Susan Phillips Metzger
What can we say, for me it is simple. Unfortunately, I didn’t get much time with Adriaan but I will say this. It was obvious. He was a Man a true Gentlemen, strong, compassionate, patient, gentle and kind. I am personally appreciative for the time I had with him, Ill be eating Adriaans grians for the rest of my life and I will always carry with me “This to will pass” Rest in peace my friend
Dear Gwen, Armoud and Family,
I was sad to just read the passing of your beloved husband and father. I have fond memories from Saint Paul’s days and visiting you at Ducky down on my walks.. I pray that our heavenly father’s peace give her comfort in this difficult time
Much love
Niki Neden
Lieve familie,
Wat een groot verdriet en gemis.. ik wens jullie ontzettend veel sterkte de komende tijd, heel veel liefs en kracht. Zo dankbaar voor jullie bezoek aan ons afgelopen jaar! We hebben ontzettend genoten van jullie fijne gezelschap en lieve Wicher..
Een hele stevige knuffel <3
Zoveel jaren samen… wat een gemis… Woorden schieten ons te kort. Jullie waren een geweldig stel samen – vanaf Leiden met een lelijke eend, naar Brummen, naar Canada. Van Ducky Down en hard werken naar samen genieten van de tuin en Curacao. Zo blij dat dat nog kon. We kijken uit naar je een dikke knuffel te geven van de zomer! Wicher zal trots op jou zijn. Hou je taai en lots of love for the whole family.
Lieve familie, Ook wij hebben alleen maar goede en warme herinneringen aan Wicher… Wat zal hij door iedereen gemist worden. We zijn in gedachten bij jullie.
Lieve Gwen
Heel verdrietig te lezen dat Wicher is overleden.Wat blijft zijn de mooie herinneringen die jullie als gezin hebben beleefd. Wij zullen wicher blijven herinneren als een gezellige warme vriend waarmee we plezier hebben gehad bij jullie bezoeken aan ons en aan jullie.In gedachten zijn we bij jullie
John en Berta