We Remember
MCGOVERN, Vern Arthur
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1930 – 2023
Vern’s favourite greeting was “Howdy” and many called him “McGoo”! Vern was special to all who knew him, especially his family and many friends. He was soft-spoken, mellow, never opinionated, controversial, or judgemental, and always sought the positive in life.
Vern was a kind, happy, very social person and he went out of his way to visit and keep in touch with his family, friends, and his many nieces and nephews, who he had amazing relationships with. He also had a lifelong love of music, especially blue grass, and he was an accomplished musician on the piano and the accordion. He hosted many music jams where friends and family musicians would play, spouses would cheer, and all would share potluck dinners.
Vern was born in Shaunavon, SK and grew up on the family farm. He was predeceased by his parents: John and Isabell McGovern; 7 siblings John, Winnie, Joe, Ceille, Lee, Pat, and Don; first wife Ann Welch; and daughter Susan.
Vern is survived by his loving wife Marg; son Brian (Deborah); daughter Cindi (Stewart); grandchildren Danaca (Ethann), Kevan, and Ben (Alanna); great-granddaughters Nakaiyya and Lilly-Ann; sister Gertrude; and many nieces and nephews.
When Vern was 18 years old, his dad John died, when his family of 10 lived in Notch Hill near Salmon Arm, BC. Vern married Ann Welch in 1951, and they had 3 children by the time he was 24 years old. The family lived in Cranbrook, BC, and he owned a second-hand store. They moved to Kelowna in 1958. He worked in a sawmill and eventually went back to the second-hand business where Susan, Brian, and Cindi worked with him. He was a gifted card player and hosted many poker games in his younger years and almost never lost.
Vern and Marg were married in 1984, and they were together for 38 years. They travelled extensively in their motorhome to the USA, where they followed the Blue Grass festival circuit and met even more lifelong friends in the desert.
Vern was the gadget guy, he always had the first in electronics – cassette players, movie cameras, and satellite tv. He attended every family event with his video camera to film his grandchildren’s sports, school, and church events. Vern loved family, music, garage sales, and RV-ing. He was not into sports, politics, fishing or hunting. He chose not to witness the dark side of society and focused on the positive side of life.
Vern will be missed, and not forgotten by his family and many friends. Special thanks to the compassionate staff at Kelowna General Hospital, especially 4 East and 4A, for their care in his last days.
A Memorial Reception will be held on FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 10, 2023, at 2:00 pm (PST), at SPRINGFIELD FUNERAL HOME, in the Family Centre, 2020 Springfield Road, Kelowna, BC. If you are unable to attend in person, please join the family online by Zoom at the time of the service (see below).
A Celebration of Life is being planned for late Spring 2023 (details to follow).
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to your favourite charity.
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The McGovern Family is inviting you to attend through Zoom:
Topic: Vern Arthur McGovern Memorial Service
Time: Feb 10, 2023 02:00 PM Vancouver
Link: us06web.zoom.us/j/88206417059?pwd=NTlZcUwyc2lzaHZ5MGk4dnFNTWp6QT09
Meeting ID: 882 0641 7059
Passcode: howdy
Service
FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 10, 2023, at 2:00 pm (PST)
Location
SPRINGFIELD FUNERAL HOME
“May the Circle be Unbroken”.
Much love to all,
Tim and Louise Brecht
Uncle Vern was my favourite Uncle. He was always friendly, fun, generous and kind from the time I was a small child. Sending all my love to Marg, Brian, Cindy and all of the family. He was one of a kind and will never be forgotten 💜
I am sure Uncle Vern was everyone’s favourite uncle! Always kind and always fun. He was much beloved and will be greatly missed. I am sure that he and Kerry are off sharing loads of laughs now. In fact, I am pretty sure they dropped by to say hi to me the other day. Sending my love and most sincere condolences to Marg, Brian, Cindy and the rest of the family.
I have many memories of Uncle Vern at the farm on Notch Hill. We used to visit often with mom (Lucille) and I’ve always remembered the summer evenings when everyone would gather to play music and sing. Gerry and I had been put to bed but would sneak down and sit on the stairs to listen.. it felt so magical to me as a young child that they were playing instruments and singing. Vern was
only 12 years older than me and I looked up to him.. When I was around 5 I fell into an ant hill and Vern picked me up, holding me sideways, as far away from his body as possible, and deposited me on the farm house kitchen floor for mom and grandma to deal with. I loved Uncle Vern my whole life and send my deepest condolences to Marg, Cindy, Brian and their families. Much love, Peggy
Vern was a great guy i always enjoyed my talks and visits with him , he shared many stories about the family and I will miss him dearly
Sending my love and most sincere condolences to Marg, Brian, Cindy and the rest of the family.
I was so sorry to hear about Uncle Vern’s passing. I will miss our talks on the phone. I will cherish the times l was able to visit and spend time with Vern. We had great fun playing cards and going to Garage Sales. We always had great fun kidding each other. I will miss Vern dearly. All our Love to Marg, Brian, Cindy and all the Family.
Ed, John and Michael
Vern were one of a kind. He was a fun filled, lovable & positive guy. You were always sure to have a few laughs, lots of music & maybe a card game or two when you were with him. Jim & I shared some many happy get togethers with Vern & Marge when they came to Cranbrook.
Keep all you great memories of him within your heart & he will live on forever.
My love & thoughts are with Marge, Brian, Cindy & their families.
My sincere condolences 💐. Lila McGovern & family
My favorite memory of uncle Vern was an amazing music jam on our deck in South Slocan, BC. Vern and Kerry were travelling around and visiting family in the area. Cousins Tralee, Aleen and Shannon joined in the fun and we all made wonderful music together with harmonies and the twinkle in Vern’s eye. Wherever he went he created connection, warmth fun and family. I will miss him as we all will. I’m sure he’s got the best bluegrass jam going on in heaven💞
Big hugs Marg! May you be surrounded by all the love of family and friends today keep those precious to heart. June Bianchini
Sending my love to all of you. Even in grief, it’s hard not to smile when remembering Vern and all the love and joy he shared with everyone. Much love to you all, especially you Marg..I hope you often feel his presence. Sharon