We Remember
PATTERSON, Lance Wayne
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Lance Wayne Patterson went home to be with his mom and his Maker on May 9, 2021, at the age of 55. Lance touched the lives of many people and will live on in their hearts as someone who lived life as largely as he loved.
Born to Gary Wayne Patterson and Diane Evelyn (née Sievert) Patterson, Lance spent most of his youth growing up in Prince George, BC. A natural athlete, Lance was involved in numerous sports including hockey, lacrosse, baseball and downhill skiing. As an adult, Lance relocated to the Lower Mainland where he pursued several career interests including welding, commercial fishing and professional transport driving. Wherever he went, Lance was quick to make friends with his outgoing personality, charm, and mischievous sense of humour. Whatever he did and whomever he loved, he did so with his whole heart. Lance loved the ocean, fishing, a good cup of coffee, admiring the beauty of God’s creation, the roar of horsepower, a delicious meal, a loving woman, Serenity, and being of service to others.
Lance is survived by his son Adam, his grandson Hendrix, his father Gary (Bev), his sister Dana, and many extended family members. Lance is also remembered by a network for friends who were like family to him.
A Celebration of Life for Lance will be held at a later date, when all friends and loved ones can safely come together.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that everyone keep kindness and compassion in their hearts for all whom they meet.
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Our little family loved Lance dearly and we wish to extend our warmest sympathies to the family. Lance has lived with us off and on over the last few years and we will cherish these memories and the many laughs we shared. He had a heart of gold, a playful spirt an undeniable wit that could brighten the day and create lasting bonds. We were so lucky to have shared so many good times. We will remember him fondly. Rest easy brother,
Love, Chris, Jo, Prez and Lola
Lance always had a quick comment for me! A joke or even at times a very serious and genuine conversation! He will be so missed by all who knew and loved him. Our deepest sympathy to Lances family and friends! RIP
I send love your way. I doubt anyone would remember me, but I met Lance in Prince George Hospital when we were both there long term. He had bone surgery on his foot. We were very different people but it didnt matter, Lance and I remained friends . I actually introduced Lance to Adams mother. So long ago, almost 40 years ago. Sweet Dreams Lance.
So very sorry for your loss.
I loved Lance as a son. I knew him for almost 19 years, and loved every side of him, and there were many, as a friend said recently about Lance, HE LIVED LARGE!!!!!! My heart is so full of sorrow, and I wish life had taken a different turn for you. Our Recovery community loved you inside and out. My heart goes out to Dana, your Dad, and all family and friends. I know you loved me as a Mom after yours was no longer on earth. I will miss you and your presence daily, till we meet again,
Barb (2nd Mom)
Lance, I’m not sure how to write this, but you have been in my heart since the first day I met you. I loved you from the beginning, as I know it was reciprocated. I watch you go through so many growth spirts, set backs, and rejuvenations, I really believed that these would be part of our lives forever.
Birthdays, relapses, marriages, old loves, new loves, pain, heartache, jobs, recoveries from medical emergencies, and from life, some people enter our lives, and cement footprints on our heart. You are near the top of my list. I can’t process this loss. I can’t imagine not hearing from you forever, or seeing you walk in through the back yard. Remember when we planted the memorial tree for Bill, after he died, you came to the Hospital when he was dying. So much history, moving you a hundred times, into houses, out of crazy places, so much life, I guess it was too big to go on forever, but I never imagined the day I would wake up and realize that I would never hear from you again, and I had that happen this morning.
Part of my heart has ripped off, and I know it will be with you through eternity. I never thought you would go first, yet here we are. I don’t like this, I’m so sorry for your family, and know the deep grief they will need to work through, as well as your friends and family in and out of recovery, you touched so many!!! And always the question is WHY? I love you and will NEVER stop, I’m so blessed you were in my life. — feeling emotional.
I am very sorry for your loss and wish your family strength during this difficult time.
Tracy Gray, Member of Parliament, Kelowna – Lake Country